I have this one friend, she is usually really bitter towards me and I never really knew why, I’d sometimes ask my other friends if she was mad at me or something. And they would almost always say no. So I always thought she just didn’t like me and dint have a reason for it. Then last night she was saying stuff like “you have PERFECT hair, you take PERFECT selfies, you are PERFECT.” And I would always reply with “thanks but my hair isn’t, thanks but I don’t take perfect selfies I just don’t show the bad ones, no I’m not perfect but thanks.” Then she would yell at me for saying I’m not perfect.
Today I realized that she is just jealous of me. But she shouldn’t be, I’m just an average girl. But I can’t get that though her head. I think since she is so jealous of me she has started to hate me. And it absolutely hurts me. Her and I use to have a wonderful friendship, practically sisters, but now when ever I’m around her I don’t want to be because I know I’m going to get at least one bitter comment from her or I would be able to hear the bitterness in her voice. I don’t even know if I want to be here friend anymore if she is going to act like this towards me. I dread talking to her or hanging out with her. Like if her I called her a bitch which we all do this playfully and never take seriously, she would get defense and mad at me but if another one of our friends did it she would be like whatever. I’m honestly so upset and confused over this. Can any of you relate to me? Anyways sweethearts, be confident :)